Dr. Joseph Karemera's journey through life was intertwined with those he cared for, beginning in Umutoni's family home in Kireka, Kampala, where he stayed while studying at Kololo Secondary School in the early 1980s. He developed a strong bond with my father and they shared a lot.
His warmth extended to many young people who lived in the home where Umutoni's parents Rutwaza Leonidas and Didasiana Kiguzi treated every child as their own including Karemera.
'My parents instilled in us resilience and self-confidence, even in the face of adversity. When we were ridiculed for being called "Rwandese" during our time as refugees, Uncle Karemera empowered us by affirming our identity,' Umutoni said.
"There is nothing wrong with being Rwandese, he would say, dissolving any insecurities we harbored and replacing them with pride,' she recalled
Umutoni says that as a role model, Karemera ignited aspirations in many, including herself. His pursuit of medicine inspired her to dream of becoming a doctor. She passed all her science classes but due to unforeseen circumstances arrived two weeks late at the school and science classes were full. I was directed led her toward the arts section and she pursed law at the university.
'His unwavering support taught me to excel in any path I chose. Later, when I hesitated during law school, he reminded me of our shared determination, famously saying, "Rwandese never quit!" His faith in us never wavered, and his mentorship stretched far beyond academics,' she said.
Afande Karemera's generosity knew no bounds. He opened his home to students and family alike, whether during our school holidays in Kenya (Lamu, Mombasa, Machakos, Nakuru, Nairobi Kenyatta Hospital). He accommodated us in his home in Uganda, or Rwanda. He shared what little he had with everyone, a testament to his selflessness and genuine care for those around him.
His dedication to education was unwavering, as he continuously supported young people's endeavors, even in times of personal difficulty. Umutoni remembers when she had a two-year-old (Amanda Akaliza) was pregnant with her second child (Paula Kami) and couldn't afford tuition for a master's degree, he encouraged and facilitated her studies, proving that challenges should never hinder ambition. Pregnancy is not a disease he would say, with hard-work and determination you will make it.
'But perhaps what truly defined Karemera was his patriotism. Long before Rwanda's liberation struggle reached its crescendo, he planted the seeds of love for our homeland in us,' she says.
He foresaw the importance of everyone's participation in building a free Rwanda and never failed to remind each one of the need to fight for that vision. His early involvement in the formation of the Rwandan Patriotic Front (RPF) in 1987 showed his deep commitment to the cause.
His service as Head of Medical Services during the liberation struggle embodied his unyielding dedication to the wellbeing of others and it is an achievement that should be documented because it was a very critical role that was much need by everyone on the battlefield.
I first new about plans for Liberation in his home and like he did to many young people, he shaped my decisions to join the liberation struggle. I later served with him in Government, we became ambassadors almost at the same time. all this long he was mentoring me.
Dr. Karemera was more than just a doctor, minister, or diplomat. He was a visionary leader a comrade whose actions were rooted in love for his country and for his people. Whether as Minister of Health, of education, promoting education in sciences and other courses, or as a diplomat, negotiating and advocating tirelessly for Rwanda's benefit, he exemplified patriotism and integrity in every role he held.
He was very loyal to the leadership of the country and this is something he instilled in all around him. Leadership structure, discipline and following guidance of the country were key virtues in his life.
'In his passing, I reflect on the monumental role he played in shaping not just our nation but the lives of all who had the privilege to know him and be guided by him. We appreciate Karemera's family for embracing all of us. To Mrs. Ann Karemera, we thank you for sharing him with us, and for your own role as a heroine alongside him. Besides every Hero there is a Heroine and vice versa.'
'You were very young when he left you to join the armed struggle. The sacrifices of the many women who were left with young children, pregnant or newly married and yet you supported these families. You all deserve to be honored and remembered,' Umutoni emphasized.
'Uncle Karemera, your legacy will live on through the lives you touched, the wisdom you shared, and the love you gave so freely. You will forever remain in our hearts, you are seated with the Lord, watching over us as we and the generations to come continue the work you and your comrades began,' she concluded.
I dedicate this poem as a tribute to my mentor, parent, dear friend, my guardian Angel; known to many as simply " uncle Karemera "
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To my dear mentor and anchor, My treasured guardian
In the quiet shadows where memories reside,
I will always cherish your guide.
In wisdom, like an eagle you taught me to soar,
Each lesson a treasure, each word I adore.
With discipline amid laughter you remain a beacon of kindness and a source of inspiration and pride.
In your nurturing voice, I found strength, you are mentor and a compass, forever true.
In the depths of my heart, your light shines strong and laughter lingers on.
As stars shine above, I'll carry your wisdom.
So here's to my mentor, my friend: Time after time I will honor your name.
In my heart you will continue to bloom just the same.
Farewell to a true guardian Angel
We will carry your memory with us always.
Yours truly Ambassador Christine Umutoni Nyinawumwami
(One of the many that you mentored)
Sam K Nkurunziza
